Forgiveness: The Healing Tool for the Holidays

As the season of family gatherings and heartfelt reunions approaches, discover the most powerful tool in this article.

"Let the wicked forsake their ways and the unrighteous their thoughts. Let them turn to the Lord, and he will have mercy on them, for he will freely pardon." Isaiah 55:7

Forgiveness is a unique tool, a precious gift bestowed upon us by God. It is a cornerstone of emotional well-being that grants us freedom and is essential for a healthy spiritual life.

When forgiveness is spoken, it should ideally be with the intention of leaving behind resentment.

By telling someone "I forgive you," we open the door to rebuilding a bridge that brings us closer, allowing us to restore harmony.

"Is anyone among you sick? Let them call the elders of the church to pray over them and anoint them with oil in the name of the Lord. And the prayer offered in faith will make the sick person well; the Lord will raise them up. If they have sinned, they will be forgiven." James 5:14-15

When we forgive sincerely, as taught by our Heavenly Father, we offer affection through this special gift, opening our hearts.

It shows care, sensitivity, commitment, and solidarity with the person who hurt us.

There are no limits to affection; we can be generous, overflowing with love, creating lasting memories in the soul.

Forgiveness is not a transaction; it is accepted and given infinite value because it signifies that the other person has chosen to dismantle barriers, lower defenses, and see you with eyes of love and mercy.

To forgive is an act of conviction and deep emotional maturity, a way of saying, "Here I am, I want you back in my life." Forgiving and being forgiven is a unique value that helps reconnect our paths in the spirit of the Holy Spirit.

"Therefore, my friends, I want you to know that through Jesus the forgiveness of sins is proclaimed to you. Through him, everyone who believes is set free from every sin, a justification you were not able to obtain under the law of Moses." Acts 13:38-39

Forgiveness involves trust and belief, but it is not a leap of faith; it is a leap of hope. It is sustained not by illusion but by recognizing the positive changes in the person we have forgiven, not through criticism but through acknowledgment of their positive actions. Only then is forgiveness maintained.

"Then Peter came to Jesus and asked, 'Lord, how many times shall I forgive my brother or sister who sins against me? Up to seven times?' Jesus answered, 'I tell you, not seven times, but seventy-seven times.'" Matthew 18:21-22

When both parties choose to give each other a second chance through forgiveness, they must nurture love by changing habits and striving to be their best selves. However, before granting forgiveness, reflection is necessary.

Forgiving means focusing on the lessons learned rather than the bitterness that brings out the worst in us, steering us away from the path of the Lord.